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Ken Peabody's avatar

I find it interesting, amuzing a sad when I see the likes of Carlson talk about masculinity and then mock possibly the bravest man in the world. Zelensky's bravery comes not from aloofness but from a genuine love of country and the Ukranian people. Carlson and his ilk worship a terrified thug and denigrate a truly brave man. The I r sense of masculinity is warped beyond belief. It is

also very disturbing to see the intersection of this warped masculinity and the christian right. The book "Jesus and John Wayne" explores this in detail.

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John R. Holt's avatar

Your reference to Aristotle, from which you get your title, takes us back to the culture of ancient Greece, which provides the foundation of half of Western Civilization (the other half being the culture of ancient Israel). One of the four virtues Aristotle (via Plato) identifies is ANDREIA, which we normally translate as “courage” or “fortitude,” but its root meaning is “manliness” (from ANDROS, of man). The archetype of manhood for Plato and Aristotle, as for ancient Greek civilization generally, was, and remains for us Westerners today, the hero of Homer’s second epic: Odysseus.

In addition to possessing all four virtues — PHRONESIS, SOPHROSYNE, DIKAIONSYNE, and ANDREIA (prudence, temperance, justice, courage) — Odysseus as a model for manhood presents a striking image of uxoriousness: all he wants after the Trojan War is to get home to be with his wife, Penelope. We first see him weeping on the beach of Calypso’s island. Alas, the beautiful goddess forces him to make love to her every day, a task most men would die for. But he wants his Penelope

In one of poetry’s great metaphor-symbols of all time, when Odysseus finally does get home and slays (with his son Telemachus) the “suitors” who have defiled his home, he gets to enjoy his heart’s desire: a night of lovemaking with his beloved Penelope. The goddess Athena (after whom Greece’s greatest city is named) gracefully blesses her champion’s homecoming by extending the night hours, thus extending the domestic lovemaking that had been suspended for twenty years, ten at war and ten more getting home. He spends that joyous night, the end of his longing, in the marriage bed he had made himself out of a living tree, around which he built his home with Penelope. His marriage bed is rooted in the soil of Ithaka, his kingdom. His private, domestic life, and the happy duties of that life, balance the public, civic duties he exercises as king (or, the duties of all men in democratic Athens of Plato and Aristotle).

Odysseus, then, as James Joyce implies in his modern masterpiece ULYSSES, is the model of manhood for ancient Greece, and for us today. .

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